Do You Need to Draw a Line in the Sand?

So how has this year gone for you?

What about 2014?

Or the year before that? Were you, or have you, been drifting through life, getting the same old useless and frustrating results?

So when are you going to draw that line in the sand and say enough is enough?

The great news is you know, past performance does not have to be an indicator or predictor of future performance. You can change what is to come.

You are in full control of your destiny. You and you alone are driving the vehicle that decides where you arrive.

In my own life I have just recently drawn my own line in the sand. I have finally screamed in my mind that I am not going to get this particular result in my life ever again.

I’ve had enough. I’m officially sick and tired of being sick and tired with this result in my life.

I have now made the decision that it will not repeat itself ever again. And I mean ever. It is an outcome that has sprung from somewhere deep in my unconscious mind no doubt. But now that I have made my decision, I think about it no more.

Time to re-question and challenge some of my beliefs. That’s the best way to tackle it. No point in beating myself up about it. It’s happened.

So what about you? You may well desire change. You may well be thinking of new changes in the New Year. You may even be excited with your thoughts of what could be. But don’t most people just ‘wish’ at this time of year? Isn’t everyone temporarily happy with wishes of a brighter future right now?

Until such time you reach the point I have recently reached (Or most people come to that) you will carry on getting the same poor results as you got last year. And the year before. And if change does not occur, you will be having the exact same wishes this time next year.

Take the first step to change it right now. Draw your line in the sand.

What are you prepared to do to ensure you get different, better, improved results next year?


Coach Robert

Robert is an author and has built a sought-after reputation as The Mind Reading Coach because of how quickly he knows what mental obstacles are holding people back. He has climbed into the minds of TV Celebrities, sports pro's, authors, millionaires, entrepreneurs, artists and other amazing folk from 33 different countries.

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  • dray0308
    30/11/2015 at 19:26

    Reblogged this on Dream Big, Dream Often and commented:
    Start now making the changes you need to make in order to reach your goals!

  • fittoservegroup
    30/11/2015 at 20:41

    Great artcle! Until, we make a decision to make a lifestyle change we will continue to make the same mistakes over and over. We are a work in progress and there is always room for improvement. Thanks for inspiring!

  • lydiaa1614
    30/11/2015 at 21:03

    I drew my line about 2 years ago, putting my past in the past. The ironic thing about reading this post of yours is today I wrote about going back in time to change things would only take away what is good in the present! I totally agree with you that you have to cross that line leaving the past in the past and concentrate on what you can change in the present and set goals for the future. So far it is working for me and I am glad it is for you as well!

  • Rob Hamilton
    30/11/2015 at 21:42

    Thanks for sharing your success with us all. Yes if we are looking in the rear view mirror, it is not very productive if we are moving forwards! I’m happy you to read you have moved forward 🙂

  • Rob Hamilton
    30/11/2015 at 21:43

    You are right. and what I have found, as I say here, most people do not decide until they are sick and tired of being sick and tired! Thanks for your kind words.

  • Rob Hamilton
    30/11/2015 at 21:48

    Thanks for sharing 🙂

  • dray0308
    30/11/2015 at 21:53

    It is my pleasure Rob!!

  • fittoservegroup
    30/11/2015 at 22:56

    Yes, Rob you said nothing but the truth! Be well ?

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